Part 2 - To All the Single Ladies

This is a word of wisdom to all the single ladies. Don‘t be fooled by the ring on your finger. He may like what he sees, tap it and put a ring on it, but he is not marrying it. There are many women who are wearing engagement rings, but not getting married. Some women have worn engagement rings for many years after accepting marriage proposals. Some women live with men for years, have children, break up, and watch as the men marry other women. So, what we have going on is women performing wifely duties with the intent of marriage.

It is sad to say that the marriage proposal has been reduced to a means of sexual conquest and empty promises. A marriage proposal should be a way of saying, ―Honey I love you and I don‘t want anyone else but you. A marriage proposal should not be motivated by a desire for sexual conquest.

Single ladies, learn to value yourselves. Trust God to bring a man into your life who shares your values and respects you. Take the time to get to know him. Don‘t be anxious. Learn to communicate, and spend quality time with him without becoming intimate. Sex casts a dark shadow on what needs to be revealed about a person. Should you decide to marry, you will discover that you have built a strong, healthy relationship, and that sex merely enhances it.

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